Weekly Wednesdays: CALLED Men’s Group | Wednesday, September 17, 2025
Meeting# 4 of 12 | This Week’s Leader: David Goodno
INTRODUCTION: Welcome everyone, this is the fourth meeting of the Fall 2025 semester of the Men’s Growth Group - Called. Reminder: we meet weekly, Wednesday, through November 12, 2025; 7:00 pm – 8:30 pm.
There is no specific prerequisites or formal “membership” required to attend; it doesn’t matter where you are in your faith journey – 10 seconds, 10-years or a lifetime; everyone is welcome; everyone has value; everyone has a voice.
Please keep in mind that we are all in different places of our faith journey; we all come from various backgrounds, have different points of view. The purpose of tonight is to come together, read and study God’s word, develop an understanding, and have a friendly discussion.
If there are differing points of view, we should not feel attacked or be hostile to one another; it’s our differences that add to the meeting and discussion. We came together tonight as friends and brothers in Christ. And we should leave the same (as friends and brothers in Christ). Often there is no right or wrong answer; just interpretation of scripture from various Biblical scholars, and sometimes even they do agree; ultimately, JESUS IS THE ANSWER.
Tonight, we are continuing with the SOAP study* of First Timothy. (*SOAP study: Scripture, Observation, Application, Prayer and Questions). – Later on in the semester we will also study Second Timothy and Titus.
ANNOUNCEMENT: Rich Kaiser and Samuel Jaquez are putting together a Men’s retreat, to take place at a remote hunter’s cabin near Emporium, Pennsylvania. The purpose is to return to nature and study God’s word. As of now, the planned dates for the retreat are Thursday, October 2 nd through Sunday, October 5 th . (Note that Rich and Sam are debating if they will have the last day of the retreat on Saturday or Sunday. As of now, they are planning the retreat to go through Sunday.)
Those who are interested in attending please speak to Samuel Jaquez or Rich Kaiser, it is $60 for three days, $45 for two days (to cover incidentals, electricity, food, etc.). Attendees will need to bring a Bible, notebook, pen/pencil, sleeping bag (or bedding/blankets), pillows, clothes, shoes and slippers, snacks, bottled water etc.
Please note that there is no running water at the cabin, and the bathroom is an outhouse, so attendees should bring dude-wipes or baby wipes. More details to follow. For those interested, Rich and Samuel will have a meeting after church service on Sunday, September 21, 2025.
BACKGROUND: History of the letters: (1 & 2 Timothy )
Paul is author of these letters to Timothy, with Biblical scholars dating the two letters around 64 AD.
Paul wrote the letters to give encouragement and instruction to Timothy, who was a young leader sent by Paul to the Church of Ephesus. As a young minister Timothy faced all sorts of pressure, conflicts, false teaching and challenges from the surrounding culture. Paul instructed Timothy to preserve the Christian faith, remain disciplined; oppose false teaching, and to minister faithfully; by example.
Today we can use the letters to Timothy to strengthen our own faith and spiritual discipline.
PRAYER: This Week’s Prayer: Father God, we thank you for allowing us to come together tonight and study your word. Father, you have given us Your Words through Scripture. Help me grow stronger in my faith and in ability to recognize worldly lies and false teaching. In Jesus name – Amen
Scripture, Read: 1 Timothy Chapter 5
Observation, Application & Questions: (Identify/Discuss Among the Group)
Key verses for discussion:
Think of a time when someone treated you respectfully. What was done that made you feel respected? If you are willing, please share with the group.
What were the apparent abuses and problems that the church in Ephesus dealt with widows?
Paul instructed Timothy in his letter to treat people in the church with the same level of respect as he would his own family. No matter what our age or place in life, we should treat each other in a manner that emphasizes respect and mutual understanding.
People often treat waiters/waitresses better than their wives or girlfriends. And they often treat casual acquaintances with more decency than their own family. - why do we think this happens? Discuss.
We need to treat all the members of the church, young or old, with dignity. We should make an effort to treat everybody in the church with respect. - Discuss
What are some of the advantages/benefits of having people of various ages attend FV Church? – Discuss.
(Chapter 5, verses 1-15) -
Paul warns Timothy and now us, that men in the Church can avoid improper attitudes towards fellow church members by treating them as family members.
Paul wanted Chriatian families to be as self-supporting as possible. Paul insisted that children and grandchildren take care of the widows in their families. Paul also suggested that younger widows remarry and start new families and for the church not to support lazy members who refuse to work.
We need to keep in mind that there were no social programs, social security, life insurance, or pensions, with little jobs available to women, widows were often unable to support themselves. Responsibility to care for widows fell on their family members and relatives. Paul stresses the importance of each family member caring for the needs of their widows and not placing the responsibility upon the church.
Read: 2 Thessalonians 3:10-16
Acts 3:1-11
Healthy homes remain the best possible training environments for children. When it comes to caring for relatives and honoring parents, children take most of their cues by watching how Mom and Dad honor their Grandparents. Remember we model how we want our children to act and behave; we lead by our example.
When Paul says “Gone astray and now follow Satan…” Biblical scholars believe that this means that some have given into immoral conduct that aligned these women with Pagan beliefs.
(Chapter 5, verses 16-25)
Preaching and teaching are closely related. Preaching is proclaiming the Word of God and confronting listeners with the truth of Scripture. Teaching is explaining the truth in Scripture, helping learners understand scripture and applying it to daily life.
Faithful church leaders should be supported and appreciated. Too often church leaders are easy targets for criticism. Often congregants have unrealistic expectations.
Church leaders are not exempt from sin, faults or mistakes; but they are often criticized for the wrong reasons. Minor imperfections, failure to meet expectations, the way they dress, they dress up too much, they don’t dress up enough… Paul said any fault of a church leader should not be brought up or confronted unless three witnesses confirm them. Then the Church leader should be confronted and rebuked in a fair way with the intention of restoration.
Read: Luke 10:2-12
1 Corinthians 9:1-14
Galatians 6:1-10
Other questions to explore:
What was the context? What was going on at the time this was written?
What and where is this happening?
What makes what was happening meaningful?
Is there anything special about the location (or locations)?
Who is involved?
How do they respond to God?
What character traits do you notice about them?
What is the significance of their involvement?
What do you think is the key message?
Did anything that surprised or stood out to you? What was it? Share with the group and discuss.
Are there any key verses that stand out to you? Discuss among the group.
Were there any repetitive words or themes that stood out to you? What were they?
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Is there anything that left you with more questions? What were they? Share with group, discuss, and research.
Biggest takeaway?
Prepare for next week’s meeting. Read: 1 Timothy 6:1-21
Is there anything that stands out when reading these verses? Be ready to discuss it at the next meeting.
Think of things that you can do to encourage new believers over the next seven days.
Think about areas of your life to improve and think about actionable steps.