Loss shifts our perspectives.
Hebrews 10:1-5 TPT, “The old system of living under the law presented us with only a faint shadow, a crude outline of the reality of the wonderful blessings to come. Even with its steady stream of sacrifices offered year after year, there still was nothing that could make our hearts perfect before God. 2–3 For if animal sacrifices could once and for all eliminate sin, they would have ceased to be offered and the worshipers would have clean consciences. Instead, once was not enough so by the repetitive sacrifices year after year, the worshipers were continually reminded of their sins, with their hearts still impure. 4 For what power does the blood of bulls and goats[a] have to remove sin’s guilt?
5 So when Jesus the Messiah came into the world he said,
“Since your ultimate desire was not another animal sacrifice,
you have clothed me with a body
that I might offer myself instead!”
Hebrews 10:21-25 TPT, “21 And since we now have a magnificent King-Priest to welcome us into God’s house, 22 we come closer to God and approach him[a] with an open heart, fully convinced by faith that nothing will keep us at a distance from him. For our hearts have been sprinkled with blood to remove impurity and we have been freed from an accusing conscience and now we are clean, unstained, and presentable to God inside and out!
23 So now we must cling tightly to the hope that lives within us, knowing that God always keeps his promises! 24 Discover creative ways to encourage others and to motivate them toward acts of compassion, doing beautiful works as expressions of love. 25 This is not the time to pull away and neglect meeting together, as some have formed the habit of doing, because we need each other! In fact, we should come together even more frequently, eager to encourage and urge each other onward as we anticipate that day dawning.”
Discover creative ways
This is not time to pull away.
Do something for God. (We acknowledge that we aren’t in control, but we know who is. Psalms 63:4-5)
Read the Bible, make a prayer list, listen to a podcast or YouTube sermon, worship God alone along with some music, spend time in silence listening to Him, etc). List of Spiritual Disciplines here.
Do something for you. (We acknowledge that it’s okay to feel low, but we can’t stay there. Proverbs 17:22)
Fun feeds the soul. (an article from the psychological point of view)
Learning about yourself is also an excellent way to do something for yourself. (Try a personality test, or try something new.)
Do something for the people closest to you. (We acknowledge that our behavior and attitudes do have an effect on others. 1 Thessalonians 5:11)
Do something for others. (We acknowledge that we can make a difference in the lives of people outside our household too. Hebrews 10:23-25)
Acts 2:42-47 TPT, “42 Every believer was faithfully devoted to following the teachings of the apostles. Their hearts were mutually linked to one another,[b] sharing communion and coming together regularly for prayer. 43 A deep sense of holy awe swept over everyone, and the apostles performed many miraculous signs and wonders. 44 All the believers were in fellowship as one body, and they shared with one another whatever they had. 45 Out of generosity they even sold their assets to distribute the proceeds to those who were in need among them. 46 Daily they met together in the temple courts and in one another’s homes to celebrate communion. They shared meals together with joyful hearts and tender humility. 47 They were continually filled with praises to God, enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord kept adding to their number daily those who were coming to life.”